I hear what your sayin Dan, but if needs must. all about being careful and not ham fisted, tighter than a nuns chuff our engine bay. Just comes down to money, wont scrimp on the plugs, but i dont mind spending a few hours doing it right. its difficult but not impossible. Hardest part i can see is the rear plug drivers side, loadsa ancilliaries goin on above it so not much room. with air box out it would give more space, but air con and engine mount are close too. Reckon it needs about 3 - 4 hours and the right equiptment.
It will be a week or 2 before i even get near it if i do go ahead, i might trial taking out the airbox etc and see what room i have to play with.
as regards putting the plugs in, a little bit of oil will help guide them in on correct threads, but trial and error will tell all. Sure a subaru mechanic could do the same( at least ya have come back there i suppose)
I knew that owning one of these motors was expensive, but the likes of oil changes, plugs, coolant etc arent impossible to do yourself. would llike to keep these kind of costs under control.