Hello Eric,
Sorry to hear your Very Bad News
I had a similar problem in work some time ago.......
With some staff members knowing their door is open when it stops (dents) against another staff members car.......
The lacquer is, IMO particularly soft on Subaru Cars.... & Although I did not get any dents, I had to polish out some lacquer marks on occasions
Other employees in work have not been so lucky, with dents etc
With Older People, it boils down to a lack of respect of both their own & other peoples items.......
To try to get around this, I have "teamed up" with a few staff members to all park together
At least we do not all use each other cars as "Door Stops"
Cheers,
Michael
P.S. This has me not using my car for shopping, cinemas, etc ... as I couldn't bear coming back to see scratches, dents etc in her